Lot of people comes to me asking some advice about talking in public and need help with their speech. I told them to keep it as simple as possible. You don’t have to put word in harsh words witch might offend you listeners or upset them.
If you are one of those people who just can keep you mouth shut here is two tips for you to help to be conservative.
1. Speaking less.
By this I mean it all begins when you open your mouth in wrong place at the wrong time does it? If you keep your mouth more shut and listen more you will get great result by gaining more respect at the sime time than you are showing you care and will let others to share their feelings.
2. Speak only when you have to
Second of my tips is to respond and speak only when you really have some relative information or you are defending others. Have you ever been in situation where someone is crushing other in words and he/she cant defend himself? I have and I can tell it gives “goose-bumps” so if you have skills in tongue twisting and have no fear so stand up and defend you friend.
If every one in world would speak less and listen more this planet of ours would be much less complicated place.